Day 3 – How do you know you are a Dominant or have the potential to be Dominant? How do you feel when you express your Dominance?
I was offered everything my heart desired. I was offered to have my every need catered for by a man and I thought “Yes! That is what I want from a relationship!”
When I say “Do this because it is best for us/you” I know that I am taking care of all of us so I feel a strength & control that was not there before I was in a D/s relationship.
When I say “Do this because I told you to” I know that when it is done it is the ongoing affirmation of our agreed dynamic.
I like knowing that I have final say and the peace that comes from him knowing that my decisions are researched and informed and for the greater good of us all.
I feel whole in knowing that I do not have to fight just to be heard.