30 Days of Dominance – Day 4

Day 4 – Do you switch into a submissive role at any time? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you? If you are in a Domestic Discipline relationship, are there things that you do not maintain control over?
I am dominant.  It is in me.  It is what I am.  I am not playing a role.  There is not one ounce of submissiveness in me.  There is also no bottom in me.  The closest I get to “bottom” is my position in the missionary position and I am still dominant when I am there 😉

It is simply not what I am.  I gain no personal satisfaction from not being the one in control.  I gain nothing from not making the decisions (although occasionally I tell him to decide the finer details).

I have no desire to be bound.  No need to have impact toys used on me.  There is nothing in it for me to be teased.  I want what I want and I want it when I want it.