Day 4 – Do you switch into a submissive role at any time? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you? If you are in a Domestic Discipline relationship, are there things that you do not maintain control over?
I am dominant. It is in me. It is what I am. I am not playing a role. There is not one ounce of submissiveness in me. There is also no bottom in me. The closest I get to “bottom” is my position in the missionary position and I am still dominant when I am there 😉
It is simply not what I am. I gain no personal satisfaction from not being the one in control. I gain nothing from not making the decisions (although occasionally I tell him to decide the finer details).
I have no desire to be bound. No need to have impact toys used on me. There is nothing in it for me to be teased. I want what I want and I want it when I want it.