30 Days of Dominance – Day 2

Day 2 – Describe what you are looking for in a submissive and the techniques you might use to instill those characteristics in your submissive. Are you exclusively Dominant in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you Dominant only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you Dominant to play partners or only in the context of a relationship?

I am not looking for a submissive.  I already have one.

If I were looking I would be looking for an intelligent man who could hold a conversation with me and wasn’t afraid to share his opinion and ultimately follow my decision.  I would expect obedience, courtesy and the willingness to be chaste.

I am dominant in everything we do. Sometimes I leave the decision making up to him but that only happens when I decide it should.

The force or degree of my dominance varies depending on the circumstances but I am always his Miss and he is always my boy.

We are in a committed, monogamous relationship. I have no desire or inclination to top or dominate another sub.

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30 Days of Dominance – Day 1

I stole this from Femi over on Deviantly Romantic.

Day 1 – Does your Dominance – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your preferred Dominant style as Taken in Hand, Domestic Discipline, Top/bottom, Dominant/submissive, Master/slave, Owner/pet, or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why?

I am my boys girlfriend, his Domme, his owner and hopefully some day his wife.

From that list I am his Dominant.  How I dominate him changes depending on the day, my mood and the circumstances.